June 24, 2002
Bad Marriage? Send the Wife to Work

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News Channel 10 - Employment - Working Wives Lower Divorce Chances

Marital unhappiness frequently drives wives into the workplace, said Dr. Robert Schoen, a sociology professor. Whether it be unhappy wives, husbands or both, unhappiness can play an important role in wives taking on full-time employment.

This story is interesting. It seems that when a man or woman gets unhappy in a marriage, it greatly increases the chances that the woman will enter the workforce. If a couple is happy, odds that the wife will go to work are lower.

"We see no consequences of wives' full-time employment for marital happiness, but wives' full-time employment decreases the risk of subsequent marital disruption," Schoen explained.

I suspect that in these unhappy couples, the working husband does not respect his wife's role as homemaker. When she goes to work, her self-esteem probably improves because she has been conditioned to think of her self-worth in purely economic and career terms. The husband's opinion of her probably increses as well.

It's also possible that a second income resolves most financial issues, which is a big source of conflict in marriages.

Or perhaps a career provides an avenue for domineering women to exercise control over others, when she can't do so at home.

Another possibility that comes to mind is that co-workers provide emotional support and needed relationships that a homemaker is not getting from her family.

Maybe it's none of those. Maybe a combination of some. I dunno.

Another interesting quote:

The researchers also found that having a child reduced the likelihood of wives' employment by 55 percent. Women with one child were also less likely to work full-time than wives with two or more children and wives with no children.

I guess moms want to stay home with the first baby, but by the time number 2 comes along they want to get away! :-)

Posted by Robert at June 24, 2002 03:37 PM
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